THE ART OF SUCKING DICK (THE BEST BLOWJOB GUIDE)

By Obomengniibaa Nana Akua

The Art of Sucking Dick

Knowing the best blow job techniques to bring your man into a state of orgasmic bliss is vital if you want to make him utterly addicted to you…or any man for that matter.

The Art of Sucking Dick is all about teaching you some of my most effective blow job techniques.

It always works, believe me!

If you want to snatch souls, read this article and become a pro! 

Lick, Lick, Lick It

Licking his penis is a powerful blow job technique for beginning your blow job. It serves as a sort of oral sex foreplay that will build sexual tension and have him begging you to take him in your mouth…which is exactly what you want.

Licking his cock is super easy. At it’s simplest, you just need to hold his penis in your hands and use your tongue to lick it. You’ll find that licking him from the base to the tip works really well. But don’t stop here, there are a bunch of other licking techniques that you can use during your blow job:

Focus on the Tip – According to one study, the top part or glans of your man’s penis is the most sensitive part, specifically the underside of his glans, but if your man is circumcised then it will be slightly less sensitive. The bottom side, where the head connects to his shaft, is known as the frenulum and is also incredibly sensitive.

Try focusing on licking the tip of his penis (the glans) using the least amount of pressure possible. Many guys report this being their absolute favorite blow job technique. You can even try doing this for your entire blow job until he comes.

The Topside of your Tongue – The top side of your tongue provides slightly more stimulation than the underside thanks to the rough surface your taste buds create. So focus on using the top side of your tongue when licking him.

His Balls – Don’t forget about his balls. His balls are as sensitive as his penis, and for some guys, even more sensitive than his penis.

Anilingus – There are two other excellent locations besides his penis and balls that can massively add to his pleasure and make him see you as an oral sex goddess even if they are not strictly part of a regular BJ.

His perineum or perineal raphe aka his taint, the rough patch of skin located just behind his balls as well as his anus contain a lot of nerve endings. The root of his penis lies beneath this skin, behind the perineum, so you can stimulate it through his perineum. Some guys adore having these two areas licked and stimulated while others don’t like it at all. It’s a personal preference, and it all depends on your man.

Tonguing these areas, up and down, or in a circular motion is an awesome way to stimulate them. You can even press your tongue inwards on his anus to provide a different, but still pleasurable sensation. This technique is called anilingus.

Taint-To-Tip – A technique that works great if your man has a sensitive perineum (taint) or balls is to slowly lick him from his perineum all the way to the tip of his penis. Doing this in one slow, continuous lick is best.

You’ll also find that it’s easiest to do when you use your hand or just a finger to press his penis against his belly.

One vital blow job technique to keep in mind when licking his dick during a blow job is that:

Wetter Is Better

Ask any guy, and they will tell you the same thing: Super wet blow jobs feel best. Ideally, you will easily be able to produce lots of saliva on command, but that’s not always easy.

Two tricks to producing more saliva are:

* Chewing gum right before going down on him.

* Eating a piece of juicy fruit before you start blowing him (like a strawberry or pineapple or peach).

Of course, these two tricks aren’t always practical.

A much easier and more reliable way to make your blow jobs super-wet is to use edible lube. Just keep some handy in a drawer beside your bed or in your purse.

This also means that you will have lube handy in case you need some for sex.

Deep Throating Solution – One quick way to produce lots of saliva is to deep throat your man. Here’s why it works:

When his penis touches the back of your throat, it will stimulate your gag reflex. This triggers your body to quickly produce lots of saliva. So, if you both enjoy deep throat, this is the perfect technique to give your man a wet, sloppy blow job.

Just The Tip

As I mentioned earlier, the tip of your man’s penis (the glans) is by far the most sensitive spot on his penis, particularly the underside. The female equivalent of the penis is the clitoris. So focusing your attention on the tip of his penis is going to work well to push him over the edge in the most intense and pleasurable way possible.

There are a number of different techniques you can use to pleasure the tip of his penis.

Kissing – Kissing the tip of his penis is a fabulous technique to start off your blow job and draw out the length of it…perfect if you like seeing and hearing your man squirm in beautiful agony. Kissing his penis and balls is easy, just think back to how you kiss him normally (on the lips)…

* Purse your lips together and give him small “pecks.”

* Open your lips slightly so that you can gently squeeze the tip of his penis between them.

* With saliva on your lips, gently run them over his penis.

* Use your lips to gently suck on the top of his penis.

The Twister – Using your tongue and lots of saliva, you can perform an ultra-pleasurable and satisfying blow job technique I like to call the Twister. While holding his penis steady in one or both hands, start making a slow circular motion with your tongue around the top of his penis. You can alternate direction and speed to add some variety, but this blissful bj technique alone is enough to bring him to a thundering climax.

Deep Throat – Deep throating your man is a more advanced blow job technique, but when done right, it can deeply gratify and sexually satisfy your man. This extra pleasure is thanks to the back of your throat. As you take him deep into your mouth, eventually, your tonsils and the back of your throat will come into contact with the tip of his penis.

The slight spasming of your throat (thanks to your gag reflex) will make it more enjoyable and stimulating for your man, along with the fact that the rest of your mouth and tongue will be stimulating the shaft of his dick.

The Tip Of The Tip – Some guys have sensitive urethral openings. That’s the small slit at the very top of his penis where his cum comes out of. Try gently licking it when giving him a blow job and judge his reaction. If he enjoys it, then he’s one of those guys who enjoys it. If he doesn’t, then just move on to another technique.

Slip Inside – A less advanced fellatio technique that is almost as effective at providing him with intense delight and stimulation as deep throating him is using the inside of your mouth. By taking him into your mouth and pressing/rubbing the tip of his penis against the inside of your cheek and tongue, you have another tool for your blow job arsenal.

Use The Roof – Carrying on from the previous technique, there’s another option for stimulating him: the roof of your mouth. While you might not think it can help you when giving him a blow job, you’d be wrong.

The texture feels great when you angle his penis so that the top of his glans moves against the ridges on the roof of your mouth. If the size of his penis and your mouth don’t allow you to change angles or would mean he gets scraped with teeth, then you should probably avoid this technique.

Fingers & Hands – Using your fingers and hands is not strictly a blow job technique. However, using them is a great way to give your mouth and jaw a break. With plenty of saliva or lube, try gently running your fingers over and back the top of his penis and listen as he uncontrollably groans in pleasure.

The Up & Down

Almost all guys fantasize about getting a blow job, 87.6% to exact, but if you’re not feeling particularly confident the first few times you try it, then my advice is to stick to the easy-to-perform blow job techniques like the Up & Down.

Mastering this first is a smart way to get comfortable giving your boyfriend a blow job before progressing to more advanced techniques and tactics for giving him oral pleasure like sucking him.

To perform the Up & Down, you simply need to take your man’s penis into your mouth and make a tight “O” shape with your mouth around his penis. This “O” shape means that you can apply pressure around his entire penis.

Next, you are simply going to bob your head up and down, taking his penis in and out of your mouth. Bobbing your head up and down is super simple to start with, especially if you just concentrate on the top inch or two of his penis.

As you get comfortable with this, try taking him deeper and deeper with each stroke so that you can stimulate more and more of his penis.

Taking him deeper and deeper into your mouth runs the risk of triggering your gag reflex. Try not to worry about this. It’s entirely natural, and most men don’t really care if you gag a little.

Note: There is a ridge on his penis, where his head joins the shaft. This ridge is particularly sensitive for your man when stimulated. Try focusing on it with your lips when you make the “O” shape.

Focusing on this part of his penis also means that you are only taking the first 1-2 inches of his penis into your mouth, making gagging less likely. If you feel yourself getting close to gagging, it’s okay to pause, breathe, and relax your throat.

Tongue Tricks

I want to give you two other blow job techniques that involve your tongue. One is easy to perform, while the other is slightly more tricky but wildly satisfying for your man.

1.Soft Sandpaper – Don’t let the name fool you. This will NOT feel like sandpaper for your man; it will feel fantastic. The reason I call it “Soft Sandpaper” is because you will be using your tastebuds to “polish” your man’s penis in a similar motion that you would use with sandpaper. But the similarities end there.

To start, hold the shaft of your man’s penis firmly in your hand, then make your tongue as wet as possible and stick it out.

Next…

While holding your head and tongue in place, use your hand to move the head of his penis over your tongue. So, the only movement should be from your hand moving his penis over your tongue. Your tongue shouldn’t be moving much at all.

This way, the head of his penis will be running over your tongue.

You can move it in a circular motion, up & down, back and forth, or any movement you like.

In this way, your tongue is “polishing” the head of his penis.

2.Sliding Shaft – For this technique, take his penis as deep into your mouth as you find comfortable and hold it there. 2, 4, or 6 inches deep are all fine. The key is making sure you find it easy and comfortable to hold it there.

Next…

With your tongue at the underside of his penis, you need to slide it forwards along his shaft, as far as you can comfortably go and then slide it backward. Keep sliding it forwards and backward, massaging the same section of his shaft.

While you are doing this, keep his penis in place. Don’t take it deeper or shallower; just keep it in place.

Sliding Shaft is not a breakthrough blow job technique that is going to make your man immediately explode, but it’s a great little trick to use if you want to change your blow job routine and add some new sensations for your man.

I hope that this article covered all aspects of how to give the perfect blowjob, igniting your sex life and potentially your relationship, with humor and wit.